As children grow older, their range of activity increases. We as a
protective parents impart more and more caution to them leading to curtailment
of their activity and enthusiasm in the process. There is a famous saying “Many
difficult tasks were accomplished by persons who did not know that they are
difficult.”
A parent has to come out of this mindset that he/she has to protect the
child fully. This change is not possible or advisable on a sudden basis. A
child is to be given more and more freedom to do things and understand
implications, as he/she grows older. This way, parent also can loosen her
control gradually and prepare the child for real world life. It is true that
this process of loosening can be easier/faster for a male child compared to a
female child, it is needed all the same for any child.
But it is difficult to find a suitable and
appropriate activity for a teen child. There are some organisations in
India, who take up some such tasks.
Youth Hostels Association of India(YHAI) is one such. Girivihar in Mumbai is
another.
Both these organizations, provide a platform to live a real world life to a
child. Girivihar conducts a camp in Dec every year for children between 8-14.
They take these children to near by place and let them indulge in activities
like rock climbing, rappelling, river crossing etc. The group of children are
guided by expert guides. They are conducting this for the past 30 years or
more.
YHAI on the other such organization which has pan India presence. They
conduct adventure camps for children/adults of various age groups and organize
camps twice a year in Dec-Jan and April-Jun at various places in India. Typical
age groups are 10-12,12-14, 15 and above and 18 and above. One issue with
taking them for a child is that someone has to leave the child at the camp and
bring him/her back after the camp.
The bookings open 2-3 months in advance for both of these, so that a parent
or guardian can plan in advance for them.
One more fact about these organizations is they are not for profit
organization and the pricing of camps is at cost to cost basis.
These organizations and their camps help parent design an age appropriate
training program for a child to improve/impart some much needed skills for a
child to be on his own in the real world.
YHAI camps are good not only for children but for adults too.
For futher information on these organizations, one can visit their websites.